I deleted the Venn Diagram post--it is the one factor that humble posters, not administrators, can control here.
For some reason, it's okay to use REALNEO, but not to use Facebook or Twitter. Fine. I agree--it's insidious and the site recently sold all of our personal info dispersed there to Spokeo.com. I didn't invent REALNEO or Facebook or Twitter or Spokeo. It is important to find some way to enjoy one's life. If social media makes anyone miserable. You have control. Flip the switch. OFF.